Divorce or Separation Coaching

Service Description

Ok, so the wheels have come off and you have decided to separate or divorce. There are two ways of doing it, lawyer up and fight to the death or sit down and try and work out what way you are going to do it.  This tailored session will give you: - A neutral space to talk about coparenting apart, if children are involved. - To discuss how the legal process if going. - If lawyers have taken over and it is developing a life of its own, you will have a space where they can meet up and talk about what’s happening. - It is cheaper and easier option, where anger and blame are put aside. - Any details can be ironed out and negotiated upon. These include; who takes the kids, who lives where, do the kids meet your new partner, what happens to the china you got for your wedding, can I still talk to your parents. - Humanity and compassion with a whole load of direction. Mediation can be uninviting and cold with drawn out waiting times. This space is warm, friendly and most importantly neutral. The idea of this is to get you closer to an agreed divorce as opposed to a contested court case. There is the fear that there will be no money and there is the fear that one will not be able to be a full parent anymore. You own the space and you set out the agenda. This is not the space to attack each other. It’s a constructive working space which allows people to be people. Bringing the feelings of confusion, upset, loneliness, anger, regret and feeling let down to the surface for repair. It is a comprehensive ancillary space for aware and mature couples who want to do this right.  It may be madness to think now, but you might actually like each other at the end of it and coparent well.